I’m at the right age and I believe I’ve already found the love of my life. But is my maturity sufficient for me to get married?
Marriage is not like hot rice that you spew when your tongue is burned. This is a Filipino saying that indicates the gravity of matrimony. Divorce is a social issue whose detrimental effect to children is undeniable. Whether you are against divorce or not, you will certainly agree that a lifetime marriage is still best for the family. Here are some guidelines that will help bachelors and bachelorettes out there to determine whether they
YOU ARE READY TO GET MARRIED IF:
1. You have a bank account, which is equivalent to a one-year salary. This certifies that you have enough money to afford the high cost of living of newly established households.
2. You know the basic remedy for flu, colds, and fever. As a parent, you must have the practical know-how about illnesses which are common among kids and adults.
3. You can easily say no to your friends who are inviting you to a party. This means that you have said goodbye to “irresponsible single life” and you are now prioritizing your own family.
4. You know how to cook at least 5 different kinds of dishes. This means that you can feed your family literally. Whether you
5. You can use a dirty public bathroom. This shows that you are capable of getting dirty especially for your kids. You must be able to change your baby’s diapers, for example.
6. You can smile at a stranger. This shows your confidence and bravery. Timid cowards are dangerous parents.
7. You know what to do in case of blackouts. This proves that you can save your family in times of crisis or unexpected disasters or accidents.
8. You are not an alcoholic. Alcoholism shows that one has a serious problem. Alcoholism will make parenting very risky.
9. You can resist the temptation of buying something impulsively. This shows not only discipline but also financial management ability.
10. You have a driver’s license. (*Self-explanatory)
As trivial as they may sound, these things manifest your holistic maturity and readiness to get married. If you are amenable to all of the abovementioned items, then certainly, you are ready to get married. If you and the love of your life are both ready, go ahead- get hitched!